Positive Parenting

I came across this post from a mommie on a forum... just thought this is so cool!

[Some of my kids are a bit older than yours (8 and 6 -- they are the oldest), but I have found over time that positive parenting means for me, re-envisioning my role as parent... not as someone whose job is to control my children, but to guide them.

For me, positive parenting really means maintaining a connection. As with any long-lasting relationship, there are highs and lows; but the connection is always the first priority. That means accepting that my children aren't like me in some ways, and being ok with that. It means realizing that their needs and experiences are different than mine, and that's fine, as well....

...For the younger kiddies,it means lots and lots of redirection; maintaining an environment where it is safe to explore and play, thereby limiting the "no's" that they hear each day. We don't use any system of rewards/punishments in the family, however, so at a very early age (2ish) we begin in earnest helping the children to reflect on their actions, and, over time (many years' time!) learning to be self-directed, and self-monitored. I don't believe that any of those qualities can be forced, but they can be nurtured....]